Men or women, young or old, we all want to be and feel likeable. If you think it is about doing certain things that would make people like you,then you are wrong. Your likeability is the best way with which you reflect your internal well-being to your environment. It can be easily obtained if you follow the right steps and make some effort. These are some of the main steps to take:
Accept yourself
"Be yourself", you hear this all the time. In fact, it is to mean: Accept yourself. The more you do so, the more you get spontaneous. You don't want to look phony as you pretend to be what you are not.
Be helpful
Many people think it is a kind of weakness in personality when you offer help, but I think it is a huge liability if you can not give help to those who need it or expect it from you. The selfish and the mean are often very hated. Imagine yourself intensely in big trouble, how would you feel about people who try to help you? And those who let you down?
Have self-confidence
People will admire and respect you if you are self-confident.It is a sign of stength and charisma.But be careful,too much self-confidence isn't healthy.when it goes over the edge,it becomes arrogancy.
Finally,I would say that anybody can be likeable and so loved.Each one has his own and distinctive charm ,but the question is how to develop it and use it.
Accept yourself
"Be yourself", you hear this all the time. In fact, it is to mean: Accept yourself. The more you do so, the more you get spontaneous. You don't want to look phony as you pretend to be what you are not.
Be helpful
Many people think it is a kind of weakness in personality when you offer help, but I think it is a huge liability if you can not give help to those who need it or expect it from you. The selfish and the mean are often very hated. Imagine yourself intensely in big trouble, how would you feel about people who try to help you? And those who let you down?
Have self-confidence
People will admire and respect you if you are self-confident.It is a sign of stength and charisma.But be careful,too much self-confidence isn't healthy.when it goes over the edge,it becomes arrogancy.
Finally,I would say that anybody can be likeable and so loved.Each one has his own and distinctive charm ,but the question is how to develop it and use it.
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